http://www.wam.umd.edu/~lihn/sexlove/feedback/ (PC Press Internet CD, 03/1996)Please note that an293440 is the id for who@where, which means "I won't let you know !" -- Just kidding.
From: an547060@anon.penet.fi Subject: trademark infringement We recently sent you e-mail informing you of our hot links list, The Wild Side, and asking you to link to www.futuresex.com in return. Unfortunately, we have been recently threatened with a lawsuit for trademark infringement by FutureSex magazine if we do not terminate this domain shortly. Therefore we are required to ask you to change the link to www.dreamsex.com. The new title is "Sweden's Dreamsex Fantasyworld". We would appreciate it if you would update any links immediately and e-mail notice of your compliance. Thanks for your time and attention. If this e-mail doesn't apply to you, we apologize in advance. Sincerely, Dream new URL: http://www.dreamsex.com Sweden's Dreamsex Fantasyworld
From: an293440@anon.penet.fi Date: 19 Feb 1996 I am opposed to censorship in any form, and I am opposed to Christianity in any form. The only thing we should censor is the stupid Bible.Comment : If you oppose censorship in this feedback, I can give you the message that I have blocked. The page promoting masturbation is at http://www.summum.org/ and the page that asked me to cross link is at http://www.futuresex.com/wildside/. The password the gentleman gave me I also give it to you, sexy69.
From: an293440@anon.penet.fi Date: 19 Feb 1996 I enjoy tastefull nude pictures of people. I don't feel that the nude body is disgraceful, disgusting, or evil. I feel that you should get a grasp on reality instead of letting some book that is over 1600 years old run your life. Secondly, Christ never set traps to try and humilate people into doing what he felt was right. You my friend are a bigger sinner than anyone who accesses this page. Christ was about getting people to love each other through total acceptance of one another.You should concentrate your efforts on something that is truely repulsive, violence and the seemingly disrespect people have when they try to dominate people mentally and physically. You my friend are no better then me or anyone else, so stop trying to act like you have cornered the market on morality and rightiousness, because in reality all you have cornered is your own sick perverted world where you are perfect and anybody who disagrees with you is sick and sexually obssesed.Comment : If you enjoy pornography ( just as I did and maybe I still do from time to time that we call it relapse ), then you do not belong to this recovery site. I do not behave self-righteous, I am just a human being who got lost in understanding sexuality ( as I perceived myself ). This is not a battlefield for religions, please. Give something constructive to us addicts !
From: an486679@anon.penet.fi Date: 19 Feb 1996 Subject: NEW CHRISTIAN RESOURCES "Demon Possession Handbook for Human Service Workers" . http://www.opendoor.com/Higher.Ground/hs.html Deliverance from demon possession by the power of the Holy Spirit. -- This is must reading for all human service workers. Descriptions of causes, effects, and the Holy Spirit as the solution. Also 4 primary symptoms: violence, lust, greed, unnatural power of persuasion. Glossary. Ted Bundy's execution eve interview. All resources linked to Home Page. Free! "Bible Sex Facts" . http://www.opendoor.com/Higher.Ground/bsf.html Frank, Bible-based discussions of all aspects of human sexuality, including: Remaining virgins until marriage; communication; foreplay; masturbation; oral sex; petting; pornography during foreplay; sexual fantasies; mutual orgasms. Free. Both Books Include Excerpts From Ted Bundy's Execution-Eve Interview With Dr. James Dobson. All resources linked to Home Pages
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From: an519894@anon.penet.fi Date: 11 Feb 1996 Subject: Just hope to Be Heard Is This A Start? Hello my name is Robert. I am a 33 yr old male with Multiple Personalites. I come here seeking help. Understanding. An ear to hopefully listen. I am afraid of this group but i am more afraid of my compulsive behavior. I am a person who masturbates alot and is dependent on porn. I am really worknig hard in therapy to deal with this but at times it is too much. I have begun to write a masturbation journal, a work that I do when I feel the compulsion to masturbate. It helps a lot but tonight I did it twice. My therapist feels I need not go "cold turkey" and I am looking at why this is so important to me. I don't know if this is the right place to talk but at least it's a start. Could you please help. Regards, Robert With MPDComment : Hang on there. We all suffer similar problems. For the issue of going cold "turkey", I suggest that you go as far as you can, but don't beat youself up if relapse. It is a process not perfection.
From: an293440@anon.penet.fi Date: 12 Feb 1996 I read your Dec 10th letter; I support you in your efforts for recovery. Let me know if I can be of any help...Comment : Thank you for your compassion.
From: an521006@anon.penet.fi Date: 12 Feb 1996 Subject: Feedback-Prayer The Lord has very much been a part of my recovery. I have been in therapy with a Christian counselor for over 3 years. My sex/love problem is rooted in bad boundaries while growing up and being sexually abused (which is for sure a bad boundary) The Lord has given me a support system which consists mostly of caring Christian women who are not judgemental. It is so cool how He has taken care of me! I am joining a Christian boundaries group based upon John Townsend and Henry Cloud's Boundaries book. I am working on getting away from the porn -- especially on the internet. I am working on my relationships, not being involved with men who will take advantage of me or for that matter my not letting them take advantage of me. The interesting thing through this whole life experience is that I am still a virgin at 29. The Lord has taken care of me-bad boundaries and all. He is the only way to go!!! Through this has been tremendous Christian and psychological growth.
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From: an511421@anon.penet.fi Date: 1 Feb 1996 Subject: registration Dear an, I have a compulsive problem which fits all of your descrip- tions for compulsive sexual behavior. I feel totally helpless in my ability to control it for more than very short periods of time. I desperately need help but I need to be TOTALLY anonymous. For this reason I would like to work through the internet and not in person. If you could help me I would be eternally grateful.Comment: But we do not have a group here !! Please see Support Group section.
From: an513713@anon.penet.fi Date: 3 Feb 1996 I am a mother of a 27-year old son who became involved in a very bad situation of alcohol abuse with him and his girlfriend. My son never had any domestic violence problems before with any of his girlfriend/dates/or previous wife relationships; until he got hung up on this girlfriend. He married her on 8 August 1995 after the 2nd domestic violence charge. (With 1 assault, 2 domestic violence, last pending in court with disposition to be 5 Dec). On early morning hours of 18 Nov, he had worked 7 hours, came home to a party, partyning all night, then he and his abusive wife got into a fight. He hit her she threatened him with prison, he left the home about 4:30 to only be found about 75 miles from home about 9:30, of suicide. He was my only child and although he drank, she also drank and he was a victim of domestic violence on the receiving end that he would defend himself; but he would be charged. Both had been drinking -- (There were several times 911 was not called - he would show up at my door with black eyes, cuts, teeth marks, and the like). The morning he died (suicide) he had black eye, teeth marks, and lacerations. They were only married three months and ten days. The local police of any domestic violence 911 call should take both in on disorderly and have the courts sort it out -- The Ohio State laws have made it so tough for the males == 1st offense - a misdeamnor - 2nd offense, a felony could get you 18 months; 3rd offense, felony could get you 3 1/2 to 5 years. If you live in OH, beware. I lost my only child because he was not strong enough to emotionally handle the abuseive and domestic violence situation at home - nor could he get over this hangup with the girl/wife. NJBB42A
From: an433293@anon.penet.fi Date: 3 Feb 1996 Subject: your hot site Hey! I thought that you'd like to know that I've added your excellent (and very sexy) site to my list of hot links, The Wild Side, at http://www.xxx.com/xxx. The Wild Side is a very popular site on the 'net and is rated "Outstanding!" by Cyberbabes Newsletter. It's completely free, but it does an age verification of an FV ID (no charge at all). If you don't have an FV ID and want to check out the site, you can use the backdoor password "xxxx"; just don't pass it on to anyone! Would you please add a link in return to FutureSex at http://www.xxx.com from your site? Thanks in advance for your time and attention! :) Dream
From: an515693@anon.penet.fi Date: 5 Feb 1996 I strongly recommend PAINFUL AFFAIRS, Joseph R. Cruse, M.D. This book discusses codependency with a new understanding. He is a man in recovery and the founder of Betty Ford Clinic. Know of which he speaks. It was recommended to me by a female in A.A. Worth the time to read!
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