Test yourself for Love addiction

How to score the following problems:

1 -- Strongly Disagree

2 -- Disagree Somewhat

3 -- Lean toward Disagreeing

4 -- Neutral/Don't Know

5 -- Lean Toward Agreeing

6 -- Agree Somewhat

7 -- Strongly Agree

  1. I do not feel happy unless I know that someone loves me.
  2. I feel an irresistible impluse to pursue a person I am attracted to.
  3. If I think someone really needs me, I am attracted to that person.
  4. I do not have resources within me to deal with emotional pain I face.
  5. When I am not in a steady loving relationship, I feel empty and needy.
  6. I sometimes feel guilty about going too far sexually.
  7. I can easily identify one person I'm attracted to above all others.
  8. My parents had addictive tendencies.
  9. I fantasize about an ideal partner who would know me and love me thoroughly.
  10. I tend to view each new person ( of opposite sex ) I meet as a potential conquest.
  11. I tend to ignore the flaws in the person I am in love with.
  12. When I think about my childhood, I have unresolved issues that still cause me pain.
  13. I think there is something wrong with me that makes me hard to love.
  14. I often feel inadequate sexually.
  15. I think I can change the flaws in the person I love.
  16. I feel that I usually give in when others want something from me.
  17. Sometimes I am treated unfairly in a relationship, but it is worth it just to be loved.
  18. I fantasize about an ideal lover who will give me great pleasure.
  19. The person I am in love with makes up for my shortcomings.
  20. My romantic relationships tend to vacillate between love and hate.
  21. When I am in a romantic relationship, I tend to let all of my other friendships drift away.
  22. I feel most loved when I am involved in sexual intimacy.
  23. I get extremely jealous when my partner shows interest in someone else.
  24. I have recently suffered an emotional trauma that brought me great pain.
  25. When I am in a loving relationship, I feel energized and powerful.
  26. I often fantasize about having sex with people I see on TV or in the movies.
  27. I feel physically ill if I have to be away from the one I love for a week or more.
  28. When I am in a relationship, it tends to control my life.

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(L)	(S)	(P)	(G)	<-- column sum

(L) Love addiction

49-45 : You tend to use romantic relationships to survive. You feel that you need to be in "love" in order to be somebody.

44-39 : You have a tendency to love addiction. You are vulnerable to your high expectation for love. 38-32 : You lean toward the addiction but it is not a ongoing danger for you.

31-26 : It is not a problem now but it may be brought up by a crisis.

25-0 : You are okey in this test !

(S) Sex addiction

25-0 : You are okey in this test !

(P) Addicted to a person

(G) General addictive pattern